Day 13 I'm Weak

13. Describe 5 weaknesses you have.

I usually don't try to focus on my weaknesses.  It's a problem when I do focus on them because my biggest weakness is
that I over analyze EVERYTHING.  When I make mistakes, I tend to replay them over and over again. Analyzing what may have happened if I had acted/reacted differently.

• I can come off as a know-it-all.   I don't try to but I learn as much about my topic so that I am knowledgeable and know what I am talking about.  I try not to contribute to the conversation unless I know what I am talking about...that being said, if a person says something incorrect, I correct them and it may come off wrong.  I don't mean to but I liken it to passing bad information.  I am working on this. 
• I tend to be passive aggressive when hurt.  I just picked up on this recently...yes very passive aggressive and nice-nasty when pissed off.  Especially when someone upsets my apple cart. You know, throw me a curve ball that upsets my agenda and flow. 
  
• I am too critical of myself.  I tend to be harder on myself than I am on others.  I set my bar so high for myself...to near impossible standards....then beat myself up if I don't meet my goals when I think I should. 
• Nosy.  Yep I said it. I am nosy as hell.
  
  This can be a good or bad thing.  I think it is because I don't trust anyone so I am always looking for a reason to justify why I don't trust them.  Most folks trust you until you give them a reason not to; me I don't trust you until you prove you are trustworthy. 

So those are my 5 biggest weaknesses and I have been actively working on them. 

Ah one day, one step at a time. 

Until next time...

MzNewy