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Mother of 2, Child of God in DMV "They always ask me if I make it am I going to forget about them, but the question is, if I don't make it will they forget about me?" My spin : RealTalk When u are up everyone wants to hang on, but look for the ones that let you lean on when you are down. Remember...don't just look for me when I am up, support me when I'm down. ♥ In prosperity, your friends know you, in adversity, you know your friends. I asked God for strength, I got adversity. I asked God for wisdom, I was made a fool of. I asked for patience, I had a difficult relationship. I looked back, He gave me what I asked for. Adversity showed me I was stronger than I thought; being a fool opened my eyes to discernment making me wise; the difficult relationship showed me that patience is earned not given. Blessings come in many forms, not all of them recognizable.

Tuesday, February 16, 2016

Is this thing on...

Well...I don't have an excuse.  I just haven't been inspired.  I am still around.   Still loving my job....and as much as I LOVE the DMV....umm this cost of living is a beast.  So umm yeah...I am keeping my job but relocating back to ATL...working remotely from Atlanta, flying back to DC once a quarter.  Sigh.  I am happy...because I have missed Atlanta.  

I enjoyed Christmas at the Harbor though....

Let's see...I was in a blizzard January 22...Stuck in the house until the 27th.  Man, we had a crapload of snow.  Yeah...me toasting my homegirl because it snowed so bad on the night of her bday...we all drank a toast to her from home at 7pm....yes...I got over 2 feet of snow in 24 hours...

I have gotten to the point where I REALLY enjoy my alone time.  Not saying I don't like people, I just like curling up with a good book and my thoughts rather than having to be "on" all the time when around a bunch of folks.  

The office I work in relocated temporarily to another building so I am moving twice in a month. 

 Moved my office...moving it again..and moving my apartment.  Yeah this snow ish is for the birds.  It was fun the first few times but that ish gets old being in the house for days at a time. 

Me the first few times it first snowed------>

Me now...whenever they say it is going to snow--------->

Yeah...I am so over it LOL.  

I am almost completely packed though.  I am not the last minute chic.  I have almost everything packed up and ready to go...I have also thrown out a bunch of stuff and given away a lot.  I did break down the other two bedrooms, and moved all the stuff up front.  Come February 26, throw that stuff in the truck and chuck the dueces.  I am living out of 3 rooms right now, master BR and Bath, and the kitchen. 

Anywho...what's up with you all?

Thanks for reading.


Friday, December 18, 2015

Happy Holidays

Hi, Bloggers.

I haven't really been blogging....not for lack of trying...so many unfinished drafts.

Sunday, October 25, 2015


This year is easier than last year...and last year was easier than the year before....and I hate that. 

Sunday, October 18, 2015


Good morning, Blogland.

I was sitting here looking over my archives and I realized something.

Wednesday, October 07, 2015

Up for Air...dating chronicles

Good morning, Bloggers.

Yes I am still here.  I haven't felt inspired to write lately.  Let's see what's going on in my world.
I am dating. STILL.....  Why is it the guys start out good then fizzle?!?!?  Maybe it's me.  So let me tell you about the recent crew:

Saturday, September 19, 2015


What do you value?  I heard this question posed in a movie and it made me think, what do I value?

Friday, September 18, 2015

The object invoked has disconnected

I just need to get away from my thoughts.  Some days I think I am ok, then I get a reminder that I am mentally fragile.