I usually don't try to focus on my weaknesses. It's a problem when I do focus on them because my biggest weakness is
that I over analyze EVERYTHING. When I make mistakes, I tend to replay them over and over again. Analyzing what may have happened if I had acted/reacted differently.
- I can come off as a know-it-all. I don't try to but I learn as much about my topic so that I am knowledgeable and know what I am talking about. I try not to contribute to the conversation unless I know what I am talking about...that being said, if a person says something incorrect, I correct them and it may come off wrong. I don't mean to but I liken it to passing bad information. I am working on this.
- I tend to be passive aggressive when hurt. I just picked up on this recently...yes very passive aggressive and nice-nasty when pissed off. Especially when someone upsets my apple cart. You know, throw me a curve ball that upsets my agenda and flow.
- I am too critical of myself. I tend to be harder on myself than I am on others. I set my bar so high for myself...to near impossible standards....then beat myself up if I don't meet my goals when I think I should.
- Nosy. Yep I said it. I am nosy as hell.
So those are my 5 biggest weaknesses and I have been actively working on them.
Ah one day, one step at a time.
Until next time...